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Review of Pride and PrejudiceWhen I read the first sentence --“It is a truth universally acknowledged, that a single man in possession of a good fortune must be in want of a wife.”, I was absorbed in meditation. What kind of marriages they pursuit at that time? In order to find the answer, I read the whole novel. The novel, Pride and Prejudice, written by Jane Austen mainly talks about four marriages and destinies -- Elizabeth and Darcy, Charlotte and Collins, Jane and Bingley, Lydia and Wickham. Marriage based on money is common at that time. Above all, women have no job and no money in the aspect of economy. Women long to marry someone who has much money and high position. Only in this way, can they lead a comfortable life. Moreover, inequalities between women and men make women be inferior to men on social status. women didn’t have right at all. For example, property can be only inherited by men. Besides, the environment leads to the marriage. Jane Austen was born in Regency Period when Middle class gained social status. If women want to go out and make their livings by themselves, they will be condemned on all hands. Under this pressure, women have to seek the marriage which is well matched in social and economic status, to let them or their family get rid of poor. For instance, the marriage between Mr. Collins and Charlotte is based on monetary interest, rather than love. Therefore, women can only live and depend on their husband after marriage because of inequalities on economy and position. As far as I am concerned, marriage must be based on love. First of all, love is the foundation of marriage. If a couple argues with each other, love will disarm contradiction between couple. As long as love is in their lives, they will have a peaceful and lasting marriage. This relationship between Elizabeth and Darcy brings to light the significance of love in marriage. When they knew each other in the ascendant, all pride and prejudice were melting and they fell in love each other. So, I believe love can be exist in marriage from beginning to end.At present, some views of marriages are the same as those which are in Pride and Prejudice. Today, the role of women undergoes significant change. First, Women have right to be educated, to work and to pursuit true love. What’s more, women can do what they like, can go where they like, can get rid of the control of men, can be more independent than men, can be more intelligent than men. Although women and men are equal, women also hold the idea that men is family's economic mainstay so that they would rather marry someone who has money, house, and car instead of a poor man. A word has become hot recently on the internet -- “Prefer to sit in the BMW cars crying, but refuse to sit at the back of bicycle laughing.” This word revels some women also want to marry a husband to save themselves from spinsterhood or to gain financial security.In my opinion, women should be independent and enterprising. Firstly, women should study hard to improve themselves and broaden one's horizon. Secondly, women are able to own a successful career so that women can not only ensure supply but also can choose men they really love without considering money and position. Besides, they ought to seek the marriage based on love and understanding. As new Marriage Law was promulgated, an increasing number of women are aware that marriage cannot be based on monetary interest. Last but not least, when women deal with something, they should listen to reason and avoid pride and prejudice.撰文/梁月霞
2015-10-15 13:58:32
作者:梁月霞
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“我想要独自飞翔，你转身泪下。在我的沉重的心那里，装满了你的牵挂。你是我全部的家，我是你呵护的花…”每当我意志消沉、信心动摇、动力消失时，我会用耳塞塞住耳朵，避开一切外界的声音，沉浸在这首歌里面。当音乐响起，我的思绪飘回了我那平凡而又温暖的家。我从小出生在一个普通的家庭，父母的文化水平不高，做的是最辛苦的活，拿的是最少的工资。但是他们从不抱怨，默默地把我们三兄妹拉扯大。父母总是尽他们所能，把最好的东西给子女。我很想用文字诉说出他们的伟大，但却显得苍白无力，世间的一切在爱的面前都显得黯然失色。小小的爱，大大的温暖。父母为了让我受到更好的教育，把我送到城里的寄宿学校。我每个星期回家，父母总是心疼，不是说瘦了还是瘦了。所以，在家的饭桌满满都是我喜欢吃的菜，平时只有在节日才能吃到的，我总是很高兴的把它们消灭，但父母总是微笑着看着我吃，总是说他们吃过了。有一次，我把眼镜落在家里，周一回家拿，父母不知道。我想着随便吃一顿午饭就赶回学校，当我打开饭桌上的盖子时，我的眼睛湿润了。那哪是人吃的啊？——一瓶豆腐乳，一碟咸菜。泪珠像断了线的链子，一直往外掉，我跑去母亲工作的地方，抱着母亲一直哭。母亲轻轻拍着我的背，说：“傻娃子，没事了没事了，那么大个人还哭，还不害羞啊，别人都在笑你呢。”仿佛回到了那年小小的我，那个会扑在妈妈怀里看着撒娇要糖的小女孩。那么多年过去了，母亲还是这样宠着我，不管我多无理取闹，她总是会抱着我，轻轻拍着我的背。记得小时候流行芭比娃娃，班上的女孩子都人手一个，但妈妈没给我买，我大哭大闹，甚至还说：“我不要你当我妈妈，我妈妈不会不给我买的。”母亲仍然是温柔的把我拥入怀中，我看不清楚她的表情。如今，渐渐长大的我不敢想象当时自己到底伤了母亲有多深。到现在，母亲还是常常感到愧疚，她总叹气，觉得自己没有用，没能给我一个很好的成长坏境。可是，妈妈啊！在女儿的眼里，您给我的已经很多很多，多到我这辈子都无法还清，您对我的情，我这辈子也无法忘记。当您的头发白了，腿脚不利索了，眼睛看不清了，耳朵不灵光了，牙齿咬不动了，我仍然会陪在您身边，扶着您，背着您，把您深深地拥入怀中。撰文/梁月霞
2015-10-15 13:52:55
作者:梁月霞
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时间在指尖轻轻地流淌，岁月的痕迹留下了太多的记忆……回首一个月来所走过的路子，忽然发现，这包含辛酸汗水的路程，是多么的有意义。从来没想过自己的付出会得到如此好的回报，也从来没有想过自己会和这一帮人生的匆匆过客成为朋友。当我第一次走进他们的生活，闯进他们平静的生活。是我的出现，让他们的生活荡起了涟漪；是我的出现，改变了他们的学习方式；是我的出现，让他们的生活不再是那么的枯燥……这些都是学生对我的评价。我听了，真不知是安慰还是我确实做到了。我也不知道，我这个小小的肩膀居然可以负载这么沉重的担子了。我只是觉得，我希望通过自己的努力，能给他们带来一些快乐而已，至于其他，我倒从来没有想过。或许，这是我自己不够自信罢了。还记得，我刚加入他们的中间时，我深深地感到自己被他们排斥在外，他们处处刁难我。或是不把作业交给我检查；或是故意把作业做错，大大地增加了我工作量；或是用各种各样的话语来讽刺我，以此来满足他们的威望。我真不知道，自己身上什么时候有了如此好的忍耐，居然可以坚持这样走了过来。在我的人生旅途上，我一直觉得自己不是一个有耐性的人，我也从受不了任何委屈，或许时间真的能改变一切；或许随着人的慢慢长大，懂得的东西越来越多，经历的事情也越来越多，什么都会有所改变的。 还记得，郑同学对我说，我不要你这样的老师……对于我这样的一个初出茅庐的人来说，这该是多大的打击啊。虽说童言无忌，可是，我受不了人家对我辛勤劳动的不认可，我当时真的很想不再出现在他们的面前了。但是转念一想，到我以后走上那三尺讲台时，我将会受到的气又何尝仅仅这些而已呢？于是，我不断地鼓励自己，我一定不能输给这些小毛孩，我一定要用自己的魅力去感化他们，用自己的能力去认识他们，用自己的知识去改变他们用真诚的心与他们交朋友，用自己的爱去保护他们……总之，我用尽一切办法，用尽我所能，我真心地希望，能与这一帮孩子交朋友。或许是因为我的可怜，或许是因为我的诚心，或许是因为我的热情，又或许……上帝终于让我走进这帮孩子的内心世界，让我仔细地摸索他们的所思所想，让我明白他们真正需要的是什么。其实，经过了一段时间的接触之后，我发现这帮孩子真的很可爱，他们的心灵很单纯，他们之前那些都是气话，他们只是想通过这些话语来考验他们的老师是否真的爱他们，来考验他们的老师是否有这个耐心去教导自己。此时此刻，我感到很庆幸，我庆幸自己当时没有因为一时之气而愤然离开，我庆幸自己已经能够从多个方面去考虑问题了，然而，我更加庆幸自己能成为这帮孩子的朋友！这帮孩子里面有很多不幸的孩子，他们不是因为家庭贫寒而不幸，而是因为有的孩子得不到一个完整的家庭，有的孩子过早地离开了父母，有的孩子因为父母的溺爱而导致他们目中无人……诸如这些，我认为他们都是一些不幸的孩子。曾有一个孩子对我说：“老师，我觉得我的生命已经毫无意义了。”我听了之后，一时不知所措。一个年纪小小的孩子，居然从他的口中冒出这样的话语，真的有点不可思议。后来，我了解到，原来他来自一个不完整的家庭，父母的离异给这个小小年纪的孩子带来多少痛苦与哀伤啊！当任何一个孩子都尚未懂世界上的很多事情时，他被迫要接受离开爸爸或妈妈的铮铮事实；当每一个孩子都还在爸爸或妈妈的怀抱里撒娇时，他却面临着究竟是选择父母中的哪一个才好。我真的想不明白，为什么作为父母要让自己的孩子接受那么多痛苦，他们有没有想过任何一个孩子都需要来自父母的关爱，而且缺一不可。失去了父母的关爱，很多孩子都会陷入各种各样的迷途。譬如这个孩子，他有这样的感慨，这不能不说与家庭有诸多关系。在这样的生活圈子里生活了一个多月，我的心中有不少想法，这也让我学会了很多东西，很多从课本里根本无法接触到的东西。我深深地感受到一个人无论做什么事情，都需要很多人的鼓励，或许自己根本帮不到他一丁点，可是，有时候，即使是你的一个善意的微笑或者一个小小的鼓励，别人就有可能成功！和这些孩子在一起生活，我感到很幸福。其实，我真的应该感谢这帮孩子。是他们，让我懂得了如何承受压力；是他们，让我懂得了如何面对挑战；是他们，让我明白了如何去关爱一个人；是他们，让我提前知道孩子的心思，好让我知道，我以后的路子将有什么风景迎接我的光临……和这些孩子在一起生活，我感到很福。每次和这些孩子在一起学习时，我感到很开心。他们那开放的思维，他们那渴望知识的眼睛，他们那多姿多彩的提问，他们那爱玩的天性……无不让我感动，无不让我喜悦。和这些孩子在一起生活，我感到很幸福。我感谢上帝给我这次与这帮天使般的孩子一起生活的机会，我衷心地希望他们能够好好生活，衷心地希望他们能够开开心心地过好每一天。和这些孩子在一起生活，我感到很幸福。我为自己能与这帮孩子交朋友感到欣慰，毕竟他们曾经很排斥我，可是现在，已经不可同日而语了。还记得，那个曾经讽刺过我的学生，她不但和我和睦相处，还把自己亲手画的一幅画送给我了。当她把画给我时，我热泪盈眶，我为自己能为他们带来的改变感到很欣慰，为他们能为我改变感到骄傲。我已经把那幅画珍藏在我的收藏夹上，我会好好的把那幅画珍藏，因为它不仅是我的战利品，也是我第一次做老师的纪念，更是我与一个孩子心与心的相连。我觉得，我选择师范专业是我的一大幸运，因为我喜欢孩子，喜欢与孩子交流，喜欢与孩子在一起生活。有时候，我还傻傻的想，我希望通过自己的努力，让每个孩子都能走上他们所向往的星光大道。
2015-10-13 18:16:40
作者:刘冬琴
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支教回来已有些日子了，可我一直不敢动手把那几天的感受写下来。或许是因为太忙，或许是因为我没有勇气。在我看来，回想起与孩子们在一起生活的时光，就会勾起我心中的思念…今晚，我终于鼓起勇气，把支教的感受写下来了。支教那几天，我认识了很多朋友，我深深地感受到集体的温暖，感受到友谊的可贵，感受到师生情的深厚。是的，那段日子，我将终生难忘…可能是我个人问题吧，我一开始对这次支教是没有任何兴趣的，尽管我想毕业之后去支教，但我觉得这次支教很浪费我的时间，可是当我走过了这些日子后，再回想起来，我觉得自己很可笑…因为在这次支教中，我得到了友谊，我得到了别人的认可，我得到了前所未有的感动…我发现，我深深地爱上了那里的一切！那里的风景很美，那里的孩子很乖巧、很爱学习，那里的人民很纯朴、很善良！还记得，第一天到那里时，虽然道路不是很平坦，我们坐在车上犹如在过山车一般，但我能隐隐约约地感觉到那里的风景不错，最起码可以面朝大海，春暖花开！还记得，支教期间，有一天，下着倾盆大雨，我还以为，孩子们一定不会来上课了，可等我去教室时，发现很多孩子已经坐在教室学习了，但是他们的衣服已湿透了，情急之下，我就连劝带骂地要求他们回家换衣服，让我既心酸又欣慰的是，孩子们不但没有回家，还坚持上了整整四节课。那时候，我真的很感动！我觉得此行没白费！还记得，第二天到北潭港做调研时，那里的人民是多么热情，从他们的言行举止中可以看出他们是多么纯朴、善良！在支教期间，最让我感到惭愧的就是作为初一（1）班的班主任。到了支教的最后一天，我不能记住班上的每一位同学的名字，甚至有些同学我还没见过…尽管我给每一位同学写了留言，尽管我每天早上都去看了班上的同学，尽管我给以他们鼓励，但我没有像其他班主任那样陪他们做游戏，以致于最后那天还有同学问我名字。当时，我很吃惊，但我知道，这不能怪她，只能说是我不够尽职！所以，在这里，我要向我们班的孩子们道歉！我知道，虽然我很忙，但我不能忽略你们！其实，孩子们，我是很爱你们的！因为要忙着文艺汇演的事情，我不得不这样做。但是我每天坚持到课室去看你们，每天去看你们下午的排练，当我看到你们为了给班争光而练得满头大汗时，我很感动！可能这些都是微不足道的！不过，我很感谢孩子们的谅解，当我不在时，你们依然努力地练习。看到你们在舞台上的英姿时，我很欣慰地笑了。我说过，你们都是最美的演员！没错，舞台上的你们，并没有浓妆艳饰，但你们比任何一个职业演员都要漂亮！在北潭，我的努力得到了别人的认可，我很感动！作为文艺组组长，我觉得我还算称职吧，当然，这离不来队友们和孩子们的帮助和支持！其实，在文艺方面，我算是一个白痴！起初接到这个任务时，真让我受宠若惊！不过一路走来，我还应该好好感谢队长对我的厚爱！真的，我从中学到了很多东西。还记得，汇演那天，天公不作美，中午时分却下起雨来，本以为我的努力泡汤了，幸亏队员们的极力帮助，才让汇演顺利进行。那天看到孩子们的热情高涨，以及他们的极力配合，我很高兴；听到领导们对汇演的称赞，我很高兴！不过，那天，我也遇到了一件让人心惊胆战的事！由于我们的表演是面向整个北潭而展开的，所以在表演时难免会有社会青年的光临，或许是因为我涉世不深，或许是因为我处理问题的方式不对，当他们向我提出他们也要上台表演时，我因怕他们来倒乱，就当场拒绝了，没想到这个拒绝差点闯大祸。幸亏校长的及时解围，要不然…真不敢想象！支教的日子里，我收获最多的应该是感动吧！有来自队友们的，有来自孩子们的。那些日子，虽然有点艰苦，但更多的是幸福！记得，刚到那天，有很多蚊子，我被其侵袭一次后，就连忙挂上蚊帐。可倒霉的是，还差一根竹子，我把这困难说出来之后，其中一位队员马上给我寻找竹子，还找来报纸让我塞住过大的孔。那晚，笨手笨脚的我弄了很久才搞定，害到那队员多次跑来询问我是否需要他帮忙。看到他的热情帮助，得到他的悉心照顾，我感动得热泪盈眶！记得，最后那天，我收到了部分孩子的留言，可因为当时太忙，我来不及细看，只是随便地浏览一遍，没想到，却收到了意外的感动！有的孩子说，我上的礼仪课，让他学到很多东西。有的孩子说，下雨那天，我劝他们回家换衣服，让他们很感动。有的孩子说，我的鼓励让她有勇气站在全班同学面前唱歌…看到这些，我发现，真是小事见真情啊！可能我所做的这些，对我来说，只是举手之劳，可对于孩子们来说，却得到如此的效果！后来，我细细看了这些留言，眼泪情不自禁地夺眶而出。是的，这些孩子太纯真、太可爱了。他们犹如一朵朵白荷花，纯洁、惹人喜爱！记得，最后那天，很多队员都喝了酒，也包括我，一些男队员都喝得醉熏熏的了，但他们没有忘记保护女队员的安全，这让我很感动！那晚，初三（1）班的男孩为了给第二天走的我们送行，他们陪着我们一夜未眠，这让我很感动！还有，我应该感谢皇辉，是他，给予我帮助，让我少走了很多弯路；是他，陪我们在篮球场看星星；是他，陪我们长聊了一夜…记得，分别那天早上，由于之前预订好的车是六点的，所以我们不得不在六点钟之前准备好一切。可是，我们都还没准备好，很多学生都过来给我们送行了。有的学生家离学校很远，但他们不得不放弃睡觉时间，来给只和他们生活一周的小老师送行。这让我很感动！当我们的车开离学校时，我们班三个“捣蛋王”追来了，那时，我的眼泪再次流了出来。要知道，当他们刚进我们班时，我听到队友说，他们是把老师弄哭作为娱乐的。当时，我很害怕，整个班就三个男孩，却是如此恐怖的！后来的上课也让我体会到他们的可怕。但我没有退缩，经过和他们聊天后，我发现，其实他们并不可怕，只是他们想考验一下我们而已。经过了这次支教，我的收获是颇多的。浓浓的师生情犹如一杯奶茶，越品越有滋味！深深的友谊更像一朵不凋谢的花，越开越鲜艳！记得师兄曾说过，经历了三下乡，我们就长大了。是的，我们是长大了！我们懂得了珍惜友谊，懂得了关心他人，懂得了照顾他人…现在，我觉得，整天埋在孩子堆里，那该是多么幸福啊！
2015-10-12 22:40:00
作者:刘冬琴
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While reading in the study, I was drawn into a book until midnight. Outside the window, the wind was blowing on the autumn rain was starting to fall. I got off my chair and went to close the window. The raindrops knocked on it, and made a beautiful rhythm. Then when I took up the book again, there seemed to be something else on it. That was a shadow of myself in the past. Books have been my best friends since my early childhood. I loved books. I read picture-story books first, and then novels. My mother bought or borrowed many picture-story books for me when she found my hobby. Some of them were given as my birthday presents. When I was a little older, I bought picture-story books with my small savings that were saved from the breakfasts and the luck money I got on Spring Festival. There was always along list of the books’ names when I went to the library. I found I couldn’t enjoy myself to the full. So I often went to the bookstore to buy some more. Then came the “Culture Revolution”. I couldn’t go anywhere, and could not be one of the“rebelled persons”. So reading was my only “job”. I hid in my little room everyday and read my“library” one by one. It can be said that by this way of living, books were my faithful friends. Reading and buying books was an interesting thing. It is true that books are my best friends. But once they put me into a bad situation. It was thirty years ago. On the farm I was working, a movement called “cleaning the thought of capitalism’ wasstarted. All the books had to be handed in and burnt, including English text books. Someone reported to the head of the production team that I had some capitalist books. So I was ordered to hand them in. I put the books into my baggage and kept silent about it. The leaders there had talks with me one by one. I could not be insistent and handed in some of them. I tore a novel before them to proof my determination. I hid in the bed and had a sad weep for my books. From then on, I always locked my baggage carefully, so that they could not find my books. One day, however, after I came back from the farmland, I got a glimpse of my baggage and my face turned white at once. God save me! The cover of the baggage was opened, and a novel appeared within the clothes. I closed it hurriedly. But one head there found the book. She asked me to land the novel and promised to return it some days later. So I lost another book. I locked my baggage all the time to prevent others seeing my books, especially that English book. The owner of the book was a good friend of mine. She was worried about me and asked me to keep itcarefully. My nerves always felt tense during those days until the situation was changed. No one knew about my books that were hidden in my baggage while I left the farm. Those sad and ignorant days were passed. Books are still the best friends of mine. I often go to the bookstore to spend hundreds of RMB Yuan and take back many books, not only Chinese readings, but also English ones. I get the books not only for me but for my daughter as well. I am so satisfied that I can swim in the sea of books.
2015-10-12 19:57:19
作者:潘紫英
来源:自创
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I was very interested in learning English when I was still in my childhood. It caused me to try to enter a secondary school in which I could learn English. But my dream was crushed because of my father's political problem. I entered Huangpu Middle School at last, where I could only learn Russian. I was so taken with English that my father taught me the English alphabet and phonetic symbols. From then on, I started to learn English by myself. The unexpected always seems to happen. When the Cultural Revolution began, I became a child of what in those days were the so_called “black seven”. Everyday the coming political movement frightened me. How could I go on learning English? It seemed at times that fortune was taunting me. In answer to the call,“Theeducated youth must get re-educated from the poor and lower middle peasants”, I had to go to the countryside. I was not willing to do so at first because of my eagerness to study. I went to a farm that is located in the Zhanjiang area, while my mother was being confined. As we worked and lived there as peasants, I changed into a weak girl. Life was hard, but I still maintained my interests in English. I couldn’t find an English textbook there, let alone any English materials. But I always thought,“Where there is a will, there is a way.”Finally, I borrowed an old textbook from one of my friends and started to learn from the beginning. I recited new words and learned some simple grammar. Studying brought new life into my soul. This feeling didn't last long however sinceI had been given a warning by the head of the production team. Once he said at a team meeting,“There is someone who is learning English. What a serious problem and what a terrible idea!” Meanwhile, another head of the team asked me if I wanted to escape overseas. I could only learn English in bed with a small, dim lamp from that day. A long eight years passed. I finally had a chance to return to the side of my parents. It was a great turning of my fortune. In order to make progress, I learned English lessons on the radio. Then I was fortunate to enter a TV University, where my English improved extensively. I spent all my leisure time memorizing words, reciting tests, and delving into the difficult grammar rules. I valued my time at TV University. So I devoted my heart and mind to study. I gave birth to my daughter during those very busy days while I was preparing for the graduation examination. I am so fond of English that I have not given it up through all these years of adversity. As the saying goes, “One is never too old to learn.” I hope that I can continue learning English for the rest of my life.
2015-10-12 19:19:41
作者:潘紫英
来源:自创
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